Adventures in Spiritual Dating: Can you hear me now?
This one speaks directly to others who are spiritually-connected and living an intuitive life.
The absolute biggest issue I’ve encountered in any sort of dating is that of a lack of connection. When a person, such as myself, has a strong connection to Spirit, everything else pales in comparison. The intensity of the closeness I experience with loved ones in Spirit, animals, Angels, etc, can be compared to what I imagine it feels like in the womb. Looking into the eyes of another person, versus looking into the eyes of a puppy, for example, is something the average person can understand when it comes to this comparison. There is no hidden agenda, or manipulation. It is the purest form of connection and it just feels like absolute communion, a joining of spirits.
Being empathic means that I often connect to someone and experience their current state and vibration, which generally acts as a shield to who they are on a deeper level. It’s confusing because my intellect wants to chime in and do some logical interpretation of what’s being said, but my intuitive mind is so open it’s difficult to do more than live in the moment. In truth, I operate by living in the moment, staying present, and that often means that I don’t give much thought to ‘what’s next’ or ‘why certain things are discussed and others are not.’ I’m simply ‘being,’ and flowing with what is happening. Unless I’m paired with someone who is also present in the moment, without an agenda or having his head be in another place, you can imagine the feeling of disconnect that I experience.
Feelings of being isolated are quite common among spiritually-connected people. When you have had the experience of being so close to something, it becomes evident that in human form, we simply can’t touch the soul of someone who hasn’t reached that point of being spiritually-aware or connected. It’s like trying to stack two different sized Legos and always having those notches that don’t meet up stick out in that annoying way.
This will be my last in the ‘Adventures in Spiritual Dating’ series. I continue to reach out to those I am drawn to, and explore what adventures lie ahead. A word of sage wisdom– Once in my life I had a very special connection with a boyfriend who could literally read my thoughts, and I his. It’s never happened since, and that was about 20 years ago. I was so young, I had no idea how special and rare that connection was, and I’ve never been able to fully break it. We remain friends to this day. So– cherish those around you who do not need words to be understood and who can communicate with a touch and a look in their eyes. They are your vibrational match, and hard to find. Being on the same wavelength is far more difficult when you’re operating from the space of being spiritually aware.
Confessions of a Spirit Messenger 